Happy birthday to my Ah gong.

Why do we cry sometimes? Of happiness, anger, sorrow, regrets or was it because of something else...like emptiness?

How many of us had felt the sudden urge to cry at times? When we don't understand exactly why, but the tears began to cloud our eyes and it trailed down our cheeks too fast for us to hold it back...

I guess it is an indication to hint us that our 'bottle' is full and it is time to convert some 'content' into flowing tears so there is space to store new ones...

I firmly believe that when we are in a down mood, frustration anger and whatever negative emotions we feel will blind our fair judgement. We easily find fault with almost everything we see or hear and no one can really motivate us. No one can help us to get over this period except ourselves...

Time eventually heals. An old saying yet very true. It doesn't matter what sort of sadness we undergo, it is simply a matter of time before problems are solved. Some choose to end a life, some live with opened scars, some walk out of depressions and some become stronger, understanding themselves better... every outcome, good or bad, is a solution on its own.

I'm not indifferent and cold-hearted. Being depressed can be very difficult, I had my share of similiar rough moments when alot things were an eye sore... But then, I'm not a psychiatrist. I don't have many right words of encouragement. I wish my brothers, my friends, those who have caught the depressed bugs, a quick recovery.